LGBTQ youth are more likely to be bullied than their heterosexual and cisgender peers, which puts them at a greater risk of depression, substance abuse and suicide. Here’s how parents can support children who may be victimized because of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Accept
Knowing that they’re loved unconditionally by their family can give LGBTQ youth the confidence to stand up to their peers. Show your kids that you respect and accept all people, no matter who they love or how they identify. This should include calling out friends and relatives if they make homophobic comments or use derogatory terms.
Advocate
Encourage your children to report bullying to a trusted adult, and don’t hesitate to intervene on their behalf if you don’t think the school is taking incidents seriously. You can also work with teachers and other parents to organize anti-bullying campaigns and push for school policies that promote inclusivity.
Finally, help your teen find safe spaces in their community and online. For example, suggest that they join TrevorSpace, an inclusive online forum for LGBTQ youth around the world ages 13 to 24. Visit trevorspace.org to learn more.