Life can be difficult. Sometimes it seems that you just about get all the puzzle pieces in place and then something comes along and shakes everything up again.
There is always another problem or something more to worry about or sort out. For those who feel this way, the Bible offers a one-word prescription: rejoice.
Let me be perfectly clear: rejoice does not mean be fake or deny reality. Pretending that nothing is wrong will not help anything. Rejoice, though, is a reminder to focus on your blessings and not just your problems.
Writing from prison, where he was unfairly locked up for doing good, Paul says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4). Note that this is a command. It is not an optional, take it or leave it, sort of thing.
As well, it is worth noting that rejoicing has nothing to do with our specific circumstances. In fact, the command is to rejoice always or continually. The reminder here is that, while life is not always easy or the way we would like it, there is always good to be found if we choose to look for it.
Paul then gives them a solid reason to rejoice: “The Lord is near!” (Philippians 4:5). That could mean that the Lord’s return is near. In other words, “Do not be so concerned about what is going on right now. Rather, think about the next life.” That is a good reminder, but I am not convinced that is his point.
What I think he means is, you are not alone. God is close. He sees and understands what you are going through. You do not have to carry this burden by yourself.
The very creator of the universe can strengthen, heal, comfort and walk with you if you let him.
Again, this is not about denying your feelings or being unrealistic. It is perfectly acceptable to feel all the things you are feeling. However, as difficult as it might be, look around. You may be surprised by the blessings that still surround you.
“Rejoice… pray with thanksgiving… present your requests to God. And the peace of God will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:4-8).
You may not get to choose your circumstances, but you always get to choose how you go through them.
