It's becoming a popular phrase. And what a nice, refreshing phrase it is. I'm talking about "Paying it Forward."
Paying it forward, random acts of kindness or simply doing a good deed for another, expecting nothing in return - it's not a new concept but it's a simple action that everyone has it in them to do and it's a concept that can - and is - really changing lives.
What does "Pay it Forward" Mean? "The expression "pay it forward" is used to describe the concept of asking that a good deed be repaid by having it done for others instead. It is to commit random acts of kindness, especially to strangers. It can be donating money or performing good deeds without hoping for recognition or remuneration. It could be as simple as giving your time, talents and energy to improve the situation and/or mood of others. Conducting these acts of kindness and generosity can make this world just a little more bearable for some and change lives for others. Whether the act is big or small "Paying it Forward" can build communities, and brings people together."
The idea has been resonating throughout local communities and I sincerely hope it continues not just throughout the holiday season but the entire year through.
It's such a simple idea but think of the impact. You're heading to the post office, in a rush, lots on your mind, bills to pay... we all know what that's like. But imagine rather than the door slamming in your face, the person ahead of you holds it open with a smile and maybe even a hello. More likely than not, you'll do the same for the next person... and so on, and so on. It changes the outcome of that morning - and maybe a life.
There are little things we can all do to brighten the day of another and they don't have to be costly. Buy a stranger a cup of coffee, spend time with a lonely senior, volunteer, smile, open doors, carry groceries, get out in your community and just be a good and positive person - what's the worst that can happen?
Instead of grumbling and complaining about our situations (because we all have our fair share of problems), why can't we all make a conscious effort to try to find, and appreciate, the good? Pay it forward and watch positive change happen.
What a way to welcome in 2014!
